Treat me right?

As i sit in my room listening to Taylor Swift I think about how relationships should be. Whenever I listen to Taylor I can’t help but think about love. Its as if she gets into relationships to help us with our relationships. She is America's sweetheart and most girls look up to her for  advice, but judging from her love life, everything she says is probably wrong  wrong. If you are talking to a teenager and giving her the advice you would give a 22-year old something is bound to go wrong. Although the advice might be good it might not work for that teens’ situation. This is where I come in and help us teenagers get the swing of things.

How should you be treated?

If you are in a relationship with someone you really love you should both treat one another with the utmost respect. You might have boundaries but when it come to treating one another the right way you already have it  under control. He/She will love that you have respect for them and your connection will become stronger. I know this is starting to sound like a fortune-teller but I feel like that the greatest part of a relationship.

When I find my special someone I feel like my life’s going to be different. Having someone to talk with  about anything  and that you get along with well will change alot . I know, I just described a best friend, and that’s what a boyfriend/girlfriend  should be.

So, ladies and gentlemen,make sure you're being treated right in your relationship. Make sure everything you want to happen is happening and last but not least make sure to love one another the best you can.

Love,Emmanuela <3

Greetings

Greeting and salutations, my fellow teenagers

Hi, Hello, there so many ways to acknowledge someone but they all mean the same thing. What do they all mean? Are they just a way to start a conversation or do they mean something more.Nowadays, most teenagers don't use the formal way of saying “hello.”Maybe it just comes with time, but sometimes I wish we could act like the people of the pass and actually greet one another with respect. I know what you teens are thinking:“ Everyone is doing it. Does that mean you have to do the same? You can start your own trend and maybe it will catch the attention of other teenagers.

To me a simple “hello” means a lot coming from someone. Although it’s not that much it comes with some thought. When you are in the process of saying “hello” you have to think really hard. You ask yourself if that person deserves a hello or what it will mean to them. When people tell me “hello” they normally have smiles on their face.Is there always supposed to be a smile on your face when you say hello or can you display another emotion. Then does the smile mean the same thing?

When you think about the meanings of some of these simple words you think of how words were created . You think of all the time it might have taken for the world to evolve or how difficult  would have been to create it yourself.

What does HELLO mean to you?
What word would have created yourself if you wanted?

What's your favorite part about the holidays?

When we become surrounded by our loved ones our outlook on life changes completely. You end up thinking about all the good times you've had and how much you love them. Well this is completely the opposite in my family. When the holidays come around I just want to hide in a cave and never come out. It makes me feel like the world is about to end and I’m the only person knows about it. When my family gets together it might look like a good thing but it always ends up in the wrong place. Family from out of state who haven't seen you in years treat you like you're one and the family members that you see on a daily basis act like you're their slave. The only person I can trust to not change is my mother.

She is always the one to stop the fights and to make everyone laugh. She always knows the right things to say and that’s what  makes her so special. Everyone can go to her and ask for anything. Although sometimes she might not have what you need you will always leave with some great advice.

My family, there's nothing that can describe them. They might get on my nerves and I might not want to be seen in public with them, there  mines and I'll have to work with it. Who knows , maybe one day when the holidays come around I won't have to hide in a cave and I can just lie on my bed and take a deep breath.

What's your favorite part about the holidays?

See you next week

Hello fellow readers
 I might not  be able to write this week so if you really want to you can send me messages about what you think I should write aboutr next week.
:)

Whats F.U.N ?

What's fun? To me fun is anytime I can just sit and laugh. A time where I don't have to think about the errands that have to be done. I can just forget about the world and make myself feel better. Some people find their fun moments when they are in a quiet place. It’s different for everyone but for teens its the same. That’s only because we want to  have fun to get our minds off of things and to experience things we haven't before. Personally I don't really need to have people around me to have fun. I can make myself feel  better by doing some things you wouldn't imagine  doing. Things that seem foolish to adults but are  fun to kids.Things that I haven't done in years and that make me smile.

What are some fun things I do?

I’m a very weird person so a lot of things that seem fun to me are not to others. One normal thing I like doing is singing. This is one of my favorite things to do. I can sing about anything and it just makes me feel relieved. Although I like singing it something I really can't do with my friends. It’s like a secret and I feel like if I tell them it won't be the same. Another normal thing i like doing is making things funny. I feel like this society  is a little too over rated and to notch it down a little you have to make fun of it. Do anything you can to not let it take over your brain and turn you into a zombie.

What's fun to you?
Please leave a comment.

 

STRESSED

Why,why,why? I always end up asking  myself why. Why I did this or didn't do that, why I act this way or why I should change. What a struggle! I Sometimes I don't even know why i'm on this planet. I get so stressed that I feel like I have to kill someone before I can get any health points like in Call of Duty . Thats why I came up with a sure-fire way to make those stressed feelings go away.Yeah, life sucks,  but you can't always be upset about it. Sometimes you just have to ”Kick rocks and blow bubbles”─just go with the wind and let your hair down. This week has been the worst week of my life. Test after test after test and homework to top that off. Its like I’m having an educational sundae ─ the worst sundaes by far, and I don't even know how to handle them. School can sometimes feel like a job ─ One of those jobs that you don't really feel like waking up and going  to. For some people, those that love studying and reading books,  it can be the other way around.

Who are these people, you ask?

Well, believe it or not, I'm also one of those people. Over the years i've learned not to let stress get the best of me. You should always have something else going on to distract you from the things you hate. Something that makes you happy and you know you can always turn to. This is why i'm so happy all the time. I don't really let things take over how I should feel. When i'm glad, nothing can really change what i'm feeling. Although I might be cheerful all the time, the people around might not be. So I make it my duty to make them smile. The smiles on their faces adds to my excitement. I love making people feel better and maybe that’s what you need, too. This can help you get over your stressed feelings. Maybe, just maybe, you will feel better making someone  smile in the process .

The task I want you guys to complete is to cheer up at least one person feeling down.

What do you think will help you with your stress?

What topic should I write about next?

Do you love me?

All teenagers want to find that special person, a person they can share their love with. They want someone that they can call theirs.We've all had crushes, but sometimes we're not really sure if they're the right crushes. If you're a person like me who has not yet found that special someone it might be a little harder. I know I'm not an expert, but I feel like I can help. Sometimes I feel like i'm going to grow up alone. I might have had a chance to have had a boyfriend, but maybe I didn't take it. Its not my fault,but sometimes I don't even know what to do around boys. I start freaking out and when the first “hello” is exchanged I panic. Maybe that’s where it all goes wrong. While i'm standing there and he is staring into my blank eyes my mind goes blank. I think later of all the clever things could have said . Noting, nothing happens, and I just walk away,losing something that could have been my big break, the chance to have someone I can call my soulmate.

I always think about the reasons they might not have liked me.The first thing that comes to mind is my appearance. This might be the same for some of you. I'm not sure if it's this weird thing we girls have, but it makes it even harder to look for a boyfriend. Now I know what you're thinking.Its not all about looks, it's also about you personality. Am I too weird to find a boyfriend? Someone who will be able to understand me? Whenever i'm out with my friends I can't really act like myself. They tell me I’m too “immature.” Is that...my problem or should I take their advice.Maybe if i take their advice it will make it easier. I'm not really sure but hopefully my KNIGHT IN  SHINING ARMOR comes one day.

Who was your first crush?
                 or
What would you try to change about yourself to get the guy/girl of your drea

What is a true friend

Most people have best friends that they would do anything for. They are the people that are always by your side. They always know the right things to say─the things that make you remember why you became their friend in the first place.My best friend’s name is Arianna. I would have never thought that I would have a best friend like her. We are exactly alike and some find that quite strange. We met about four years ago and now we never separated. We do almost everything together. I think if I'd never met her something wouldn't be right about my life. I maybe would have made other friends but I don’t think we would have the same bond Arianna and I have. Sometimes it’s just so weird when you think about times you had with someone important to you─the times that keep them alive in your heart.

What if your  best friend didn't know who you were?

What would you do?

I would go crazy. I would remember all the moments I had with her but she would just
forget them.I wouldn't know what to do;this would be the end of me. No one would be able to fill that void─ the longing for someone that understands me more than I do myself. This would haunt me; I wouldn't let any of those memories leave me .Only dreaming and wishing that one day she will remember that she is my best friend and that there are no better friends then the two of us─ the two partners in crime.

Why is life so tough?

When I think of life I always end up thinking about all the bad times I've experienced . I think most teenagers might have the same problem. Whenever we think about our lives,the times that stay in our heads are the bad times−those annoying times where you could have done something right but didn’t.It's Too late to change something that could change your life forever, make it better in the blink of an eye. If we could only go back to that moment in time to kiss that boy or hold that door or even throw that trash away our life would be different. If I  could go back in time and change something that I think  would change my life ,it would be the day I would be a better me . I would go back to 2003, first grade. I started first grade like a menace, the person every kid would stay away from. If I had been a better person life wouldn't be as hard as it was for me when I was in elementary school. People wouldn't have been afraid of me and they would find me quite awesome. It would get a chance at something I have wanted my whole life−the chance to have friends that would stick by your side through thick or thin. There also very good moments that stay in our heads. The moments where you can't stop laughing or just can't stop smiling. Those are the moments that we should be thinking about all the good times of our  lives−the times that even make others happy.

What would you have done if you had the chance to change something you wish you  had done differently? Something you think that would improve you as a person,and change who you are today and make you a better you.

What would you do?

   

What is age?

    What is age? Age is nothing but a number . A number that means nothing to anyone but  adults. We live in a world where adults don't want teenagers to act like “children” but like adults. When we act like children we get punished for not being mature enough. When we begin to act like adults,  so- called “ grown Ups” think we’re growing up too fast. Being a “ child” in this century sucks! Most of us don't want to act like adults. And so we become victims of the world. Why is life so hard for us? Well i'm not really sure, but most teenagers think it’s due to peer-pressure and an abundance of responsibility put on us. We live the life adults wouldn't even dream of having, the life where everything you do is wrong and you can never get it right.

Age is one of those topics that you can understand more when you are younger, as you  face adults criticizing you about your age all the time. This topic is something I deal with on a day- to -day basis. Being 15  in a world where everyone wants you to be 20  is really hard. This world is so confusing that  us “kids” don't  know what to do but retaliate. By Doing things like drugs and drinking. This is why I think the “Adults” should give people our age more of a choice about what we want to do and be. They might think we’re making the wrong decision but not giving us the chance to make the decision is the wrong decision.The chance to take a chance at life, things we want to do to please ourselves and not others. 

 

Why can't we be our own people? If teenagers were their own people things in this world would be so much different. We would know how to control things, things adults can't even take control of. We could  create a new nation where everyone would be equal. There wouldn't be labels  separating us humans. The right to vote, drink, being allowed in a club can set many things apart. This important and social related problems make people feel very different in not all the time good ways. Although  we teenagers might not be ready for bills and children, we should have the right to speak freely and express ourselves.

              Love, Emmanuela

Who am I ?

        Who am I ?

 My name is Emmanuela, and for some weird reason some people find me to be very weird. I put my unique weirdness into my everyday life and also into my writing. I‘m  fifteen years old and to some people I might be too young, but if I am talking about teen problems to teens my age it’s just perfect. Blogging is new to me, but I think it will be very cool. I mean, I always have a lot to say anyways so why not say it in writing  to the world?. The name of my blog is “We Are Teenagers.” I know what you're thinking− here comes another teen blogger−but this is not the case.

I write to get my ideas out to all of the teens just like me. Things like grades and parents are things that we always worry about. We in certain ways are all alike and we see the world through  the same eyes. We see through the same eyes because  we go through the same things. I know you think my thoughts might be weird ,but being in the same grade level and living in this dangerous world, life is hard. We are all one and that’s what gives us this unique bond.

There are  so many things I have to say but I sometimes don't know how to say them and that's why it’s easier for me to write to someone i can't see. People you can't see can sometimes give you motivation that  your best friends can't give you. If you're reading this then  I guess I’m your new best friend. I will be writing about all the things we teens go through. I will be here when you need someone the most, someone you can say anything to.

Whenever you have anything to say you can always just comment.I’ll be open to hearing your problems  because we are all teens. Whatever you feel is going wrong in your life I'll be here to give you some advice and tell you what I would do if I were in your predicament  . I am one of your new friends, so feel free to leave a comment or follow me .

Love, Emmanuela!!!